Who doesn't want to be the fabulous and be the belle of the ball? Getting attention from men feels good!
There's nothing at all wrong with wanting to be more popular.
But did you know being popular can be bad if you don't know how to manage it? You need to know them before you make any big moves. Every woman is different and you need to know the reasons why you want to be popular. Because men who are looking to provide a safe and long term relationship are discerning and being known around the town as the party girl sure can make you 'popular' but it won't make you perfect wife material in the eyes of real men.
It's easy to sharpen up your interpersonal skills and qualities that you can apply to the social scene. You can talk your way up and get others to friend and follow you as a well-liked woman, but most of the time, you're going to be socializing with very superficial people that can forget your name in 5 minutes. The average single popular woman who is on the lookout for a man usually suffers to find anything good because she hangs out with all the men who are wrong for her.
Now, I'm not saying, that there's anything wrong with being popular. It's just that being the star of the show brings you into the focus of a lot of jealousy and nasty comments from people you don't even know were you enemies. Don't you want real friends and real emotional conversations, and not just a lot of talk about nothing? Just think for a second of all the celebrities that have had a melt down because of this steaming bull and relentless peer pressure to constantly drink, drug, dance and party. There is a real cost to fame. You have to deal with all sorts of unworthy, jealous and dangerous people. Other people's gossip is powerful, and mean. It can break your relationships if you are not careful. Are you ready to play with fire?
There are some women who can handle the pressure and walk right past it. Those are the super stars you read in the magazines or see on television. However, there are many smart women who are just celebrities in their own group or area of expertise. They get all the upsides of being popular and a lot less of the backlash that comes from other people being jealous.
It's a good idea to be the star of your own little group of girls, men like that. They see that you are a confident leader. And 'alpha' males like 'alpha females'. Yes. That's the shortcut way of being popular to find a good man. The reward you can potentially get for doing this is extraordinary. You can have a real great man be so attracted to you he comes to you with his arms wide open. And you don't have to lift a finger. It happens all in the comfort of your own clique. All you have to do is be seen by men leading your girls. But the trick is to do all of this in an open fashion. Leave your group to talk to a man you like, that way he doesn't feel intimidated.
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