So you've got your eye on someone. Or maybe you don't and you're just wondering how to make a guy like you for the next time a good one comes along.
It can be confusing to know just what to do. Well I've got a few things you can use to improve your chances.
Flirt: Flirting is a fun and effective way to send some strong attraction signals.
You'll communicate your interest and peak his at the same time. If he was already interested in you and wasn't quite sure how to go about making a move, he'll be more likely to do it when you start flirting because he can be pretty sure he won't get rejected.
If you weren't even on his radar, you might be there once you start flirting! Flirting is a subtle art and you'll need to be able to feel your way through the situation.
Get close: Physical flirting! You can use your body to send strong signals, subtly.
When you're talking to him you can try to get just a little closer than normal. Just inside his personal space. Be sure to gauge the situation and make sure you don't make him uncomfortable or come off as pushy or dominant.
This will work differently with different men. Keep your conversation light and fun, be sure to ask questions about him and listen! Don't make it all about you! He's more likely to be interested in you if he knows you're interested in him.
Have a positive attitude: Be careful what you say when you're talking to him.
It sounds obvious but sometimes we have habits we're not entirely aware of. Do you complain or downplay every situation? Do you badmouth people? If so then you need to work on turning that habit around.
Smart guys know that if you badmouth other people, you'll eventually do it to them too. You're much more attractive if you naturally transmit the qualities of someone who takes problems in stride.
Of course there are times when it's totally appropriate to complain, but when you're trying to make a man like you isn't one of them!
Be genuine: Whatever you say or do, make sure that it's true for you.
And that it's something you would do even if you weren't trying to make a guy like you. People can spot a fake.
It's much more attractive when you're true to yourself, don't need the approval of others and can keep a take-it-or-leave-it attitude.
Many unhealthy and damaging relationships have started when one partner needed the approval of the other. Do yourself a favor and don't start another one!
Don't push: Honestly, one of the best ways to make a guy like you is to not try.
You can't really make anyone like you. If you're a real catch: a fun, flirty, positive and genuine gal then you'll have your pick of more than a few high-quality men!
And if you have your eye on someone in particular there's a chance you can still do a little to tip the balance in your favor!
There's quite a bit you can do to send out the right signals and attract the men you want in your life. Just keep in mind that everyone is different and there is nothing that will work with everyone.
Knowing this and accepting it is part of the attitude that you want to cultivate.
If you work on a few basic qualities and keep the focus of the work on yourself your chances will be much better. Good luck to you!
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