Lying--we all do it at one time or another and for reasons as varied as there are stars in the sky. Social media is full of liars, we all know those 'friends' who, if you didn't know the truth and actually believed in all that was posted you would think had the coolest life around. The reality of course is that the person is trying so hard at making us all believe it is all sunshine and lollypops that the truth becomes faded, distorted and forgettable. Fact is, you can't get away from the truth, it always wins out, this is true in life, in social media and most importantly on dating sites.
Whether you are on one of the popular dating sites, specialized ones like those for Christians or the differently abled or simply trying to meet Mr. or Ms. Right in chat rooms, lies are rampant. People lie about what they look like, their weight, their dreams, their social conscience, their religions, their beliefs, and what they are looking for in a mate. The question is, why? Relationships built on a bed of lies are destined for failure. How can you expect to be matched with the person who is 'just right' for you if you aren't giving them the real truth about who you are?
Being honest with yourself and your potential mate is such a great way to start any relationship. If you have a disability, be up front about it right away, if people shy away from contacting you based on that disability, they weren't the right one for you, so why would you waste your time when you could be finding that one who is? If you are lying about what you look like and go so far as to post a picture of someone else instead of yourself, what message is that sending to prospective friends? If you meet, the other person is instantly disappointed you lied and weren't as you seemed. Case closed.
People join dating sites all the time and with varied results. Not everyone has the happy ending they depict on the commercials, but you can go a long way in making yourself one of the lucky ones if you are honest and up front from the beginning. If you are all you have to hope is the one you have your eye on is equally as honest and it could be the start of a beautiful new adventure for both of you.
Soulful encounters is a safe and welcoming dating site for the differently abled and disabled in the community. Whether you are looking for friends or something more they can help you find what you are looking for. For more information, please visit their website at http://www.soulfulencounters.com
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