I am very goal-oriented, and I read my affirmations every morning. So, it was pretty easy for me to round up my perfect "6-pack." (This "round-up" story will be told in the future posts.) My only married friend (Mind you, none of my friends are married. In fact, they are mostly all SINGLE without steady boyfriends/girlfriends.) strongly recommended that I date 6 people all at the same time before I walk down the aisle.
Why six? Because even God rested on the 7th day, right?
I, on the other hand, don't recommend this 6-pack dating to just anyone since it is extremely time-consuming and physically/mentally exhausting. If you have a demanding full-time job, then you should downsize to a 2 to 3-pack situation. It takes a lot of energy to be quick with remembering things and/or acting like you accidentally forgot things in a very cute manner. However, trust me, the experience alone was worth the try even though the whole ordeal lasted no more than 2 months. You can't have dessert all the time, right? Here are some invaluable tips I came up with to ease the stress of the 6-pack dating.
- Sometimes hang up the phone in the middle of the conversation. It will make them think you have a bad cell connection at home. This way, you can always blame it on the bad connection for not answering the phone.
- Text a question that requires him to respond and wait until he texts back. Then call the next day and ask him if he got your first text at all? He will say he did, and even texted you back. Ah ha, he will get the idea that your phone sucks and doesn't receive all the texts (or his texts here). No one can keep in touch perfectly with all 6 guys. This gives you a way out when necessary. However, don't abuse this privilege!
- If you do not possess an eidetic memory as I do, or if you have a full-time job or something that takes up your memory bank, then you won't be able to remember every conversation you have with the guys. Get a notebook/diary and keep it around at all times. Write down important facts like his astrological signs, siblings, vegetarianism, blah, blah. Read the notes before seeing each guy so that you're refreshed on "who" is going on. He will feel like you really care about him. You always want to be remembered as the sweet girl who made him feel extra special.
- Never ever pay! Those are 3 nasty letters, PAY! This is one mistake I see girls/women make over and over again. WTF? First off, men should always ask you out first. Hence they pay. Do not mother them. We need to be taken care of, and that's the natural order. Who are you to fight God? If the guy really likes you, he will pay and ask you out again. Here's a little caveat: Do charm his pants off whenever possible, both figuratively and literally. As long as you're being safe, you can have as much fun as possible. Being considered a "slut" or promiscuous is so circa whatever's in the past. Passé! You don't keep that hideous sweater your grandma gave you when you're a kid. So why bother with the old ball and chain?
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